Wordless Wednesday-13

30-40...LATE....Actually NO!!!!!!!

It's never late to wear low waist jeans like that it's never late to start your start-ups.You can do it anytime at all.......

Wordless Wednesday-12

Some guidelines for myself:)

  Have goals in your life, that will help you keep moving forward .

  You are the creator of your own life, and you can make anything out of it. So dream big, act big and make it big.

  Be it right or wrong; be the person you are. We all like people who are honest and just honest.

  Your problems are your own, and they will keep coming. Instead of getting worried about problems, put your energy in getting out of the problems.

  What ever is happening in your life right now is because of the actions you have taken in the past. What will happen tomorrow is; how you act now.

  The main key to success is confidence.

  Find your inner strength, and never let you down. You might not be Mr. or Ms. Perfect, but you are the person that no one can ever be.

  Never sacrifice your future for your present and find the perfect balance between present and future to live a better life.

  Never share your problems with anyone, because everyone is busy handling their own problems.

  Give as much as you could without expecting anything in return.

  Success is an endless journey, once you on the track; you don’t have to stop ever.

  Most important: Your blog is your personal space. When you write anything, write it from heart, and you will earn million hearts.
 

Wordless Wednesday-11

Wordless Wednesday-10

Who Am I?

I have asked this question endlessly till I got the answers. Like everyone I had something unique to do with my life. A thing which gives me satisfaction and a sense of being alive. How we are is actually what the world wants us to see us. And in that quest most of the people forget who they really are. Even I tried to do the same. I wanted to fit in. So I tried being an ideal student, an ideal daughter, an ideal girl and the list goes endless and in all of which I failed miserably. I was just average. I kept believing that I am good for nothing. But someday I woke up and saw that life is not so complicated at all. The secret lied inside me and was ready to come out the day I was ready to accept it. It was just this “To be what I am”. Like any other sport or skill, it is difficult to abide by the rules initially but eventually you start enjoying it. I have been though depression, insanity and humiliation. But those were the things that changed me from being weak and vulnerable to strong and confident person.

It is not a burden anymore. The more you accept yourself for what you are, the more wonderful secrets are revealed about yourself. I have seen most things at a tender age which I cannot reveal on a public forum but thankfully the almighty protected me and my family. He was always there for me. It was just that I never thought he cared about me because he gave me and my family so many troubles. But now I look back and thank him for his mercy. Yes, the bad part was there and it is still there. But it is my choice to accept it as a part of my live and move on or cry about it for the rest of my life. I chose the first option.

If I see my life now, I have every reason to be not happy and in fact no reason to live. But when I see myself, I see myself smiling. Initially I used to feel guilty about it. I used to think this is wrong. I have no right to be happy. I am not talking just like that. My real life was a nightmare which I believe could have been worse but thankfully to the gift I had to cope up, I managed to come out and take a rebirth like the phoenix.

If I told anyone today, no one would believe me. But the truth is I was most shy person in the world. This was because I thought if I say something, people will think I am stupid, people will laugh and what not. So when it was time to talk, I couldn’t utter a single word. But as I grew up, I was behind many people just because I couldn’t speak. I was afraid of speaking in front of anyone. I have traveled a long distance; the distance from weakness to strength. The person who couldn’t give an interview because of nervousness cracked all the interviews in the first go. The secret is simple: honest replies with a smile. If you believe you are the best, your face shows you are the best.

I discovered my love for writing, travelling and photography. So I pursued them as soon as I became independent and I had a job. I set targets every year and surprisingly I make almost all of them a reality. Why? This is just because I make targets which I want to achieve not what my parents or friends or the world wants me to achieve.The resolution if they break are because you made a target which others wanted you to achieve and not you. That is why I have seen many people say that from now on I will exercise daily and they end up following it for maximum just one week. You just have to find a way you like.

I never wanted to be slim, I never wished to be what others expected, I just was happy the way I looked. So I never tried dieting, gym or any such thing. If a thing has to come, then it has to come naturally to me. Like dancing, I do it whenever I feel like. No! I am not a good dancer. But I know I am not good and that makes me enjoy me dancing. I love to  dance for the entire life due to first the conservative nature of a  Indian family from where I come then next due to studies. But when I just danced for the first time forgetting my shyness, I enjoyed it so much that I forgot how bad a dancer I am and how shy I am!

Life is full of surprises if you are ready to face them and let it make you the way you are. In my education years, I never was the person who topped in exams, who was known to be a good painter, singer or anyone. I was a no one. Now I am everything because I am who follows my dreams and is ready for every challenge on my way. I have a rare passion to travel to all places in India. And this passion was not easy and neither was it cheap. I just made my way through challenges and made small targets. I started that dream with Lonavala, Mumbai. But I am proud that overcame those obstacles. This was a sign. That when you want something, destiny will help you. Just don’t back out because things aren’t happening the way you had planned. Be ready for surprises thrown at you by chance! Though really I missed all my friends who could not make it to the trip; but what happens; happens for the best! I waited all my life to be the person I am. And finally when I got independent, I let my dreams come into reality.

So now when I look back I don’t see what I haven’t done. But I see what all I was able to do. How many dreams I pursued and how happy they made me. I have been always seen as someone who doesn’t give importance to saving money when I should be doing that for future. For me, its the present which is more important. I am ready to take a risk. If I start thinking about that, then when is exactly the time to follow my dreams? Without dreams, I am nothing. So I have chosen my path and am ready to face the consequences. If death has to come I wont die as an unsatisfied person but as a person who lived through everything and had the courage to follow dreams. This is who I am