I Wish Everyone Loved......

For the first time I’m writing for a contest. I want to write previously for Preeti Shenoy’s Blog-“Wishlist Wednesday”, But forget to write in whole month, Today is the last day of this contest,So at the time of coming to office, I decide,I’ll participate in this contest today only..so I'm......

I wish Everyone loved to give value to Time- Time is the most important aspect of our daily life. We know that time is dimension  ordered from past through the present into the future. So we should learn how to learn time management. Everyone should be give prioritize to do list, learn to delegate, Get organized and learn to say ‘NO’.

I wish Everyone loved to others- Life is a game. We have to play for our self and others. Everyone should have the feelings of love for others. Love is critical for body and mind. It’s not negotiable for anybody. It is also true that the less love you have, the more depression you are likely to experience in your life. Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love.Everyone should love everybody, then only the world can be in peace.

I wish Everyone should loved to give respect to Women-Women creates the world. Women creates the men. But at the end she is suffering for the everything in life. House,Road,Hotel no place is safe for her. Women are part of life as Mother, sister, wife, friend, daughter. In every way Women are sharing love to others. They are also expecting some love from others.Give respect to Women, You will get 100% return of that.

I'm following preeti's blog from some month, Love to participating in the contest. I wish everybody should be loved....:)

Quote-1 for 2013

Happy New Year 2013

Like most people, as we head into 2013 I am hungry for change. In our cities, our culture, our families, and even in ourselves we want some things–many things–to be different. A new year brings hope that “it” will get better. The underlying reality of this desire is that things are not as they should be. The world is corrupt, our lives are incomplete, and people are broken.

But for all of the change I do desire, my greatest hope for 2013 is actually no change at all. You see, the fact that change is possible is rooted in another truth–God does not change, but remains constant.

Whether it’s giving up chocolate, joining the gym or reading more, most people want to make a fresh start when the clocks strike midnight on the 31st December.Interestingly enough though, it seems that the bite of the recession is the issue at the forefront of most poeple’s minds if the results of a recent survey are anything to go by.According to the study the top resolution was to save money, with 31 per cent of people saying they were planning to be more thrifty in 2013, while getting out of debt came a close second.

New Year is here. And again Resolution also. Always I used to keep resolution and break it in 1 month only but some resolution I kept for whole year also. Just want to keep resolution for this year.

1.Read more

2. Save Money

3.keep contact with friends

4.Reduce my anger

5.Be happy and smile

Shame on humanbeing

I will skip to the part which puts the entire humanity to shame and makes seasoned terrorists look like saints. Six people – the driver and his five friends beat up the guy. When the girl tries to defend him, they beat her mercilessly,  rape her one by one for hours and finish their abominable act by assaulting the poor girl’s private parts with an iron rod, leaving her ribs broken and her intestine so badly damaged that the doctors have had to cut it out as it had turned gangrenous.

I ask all the men, What have the womenfolk done to deserve such atrocities all over the world at our hands?  Why are we so unfair to half of the humankind? When and how did they wrong us? What right do we have to subjugate and punish them for our mental sickness and false chauvinism? “How zealous are we in punishing and killing those who disrespect our God or country. How shameless are we when we shoot a 15-year-old for wanting to study or rape a 23-year-old who is studying miles away from home, in hope that someday, she can support her old parents and finance her brother’s education.

It’s not Islam or Hinduism, but the entire womenfolk that is in danger. They care for us; they listen to our rants, bear our kids, and even earn their own bread to ease our financial burden.

And what do we offer them in return? We decide what they should wear, who they should talk to, in fact, whom they should vote for!

One of the biggest failures of the modern society is its inability in making the world a safer place for women folk. Rapes, mole stations  harassment at home and work know no territorial or cultural boundaries. While the guilty of such crimes should be handed out the severest punishment, let’s not evade the bigger question – ‘why have women been so marginalized and exploited and what should be done to change the mentality of men?’

I find myself incapable of a perfect answer to this question. I feel there is no single perfect answer. Therefore, I turn to you, I turn to us. Together, can we find the reason? Can we find the answers?

It's Time to Go.....

It's time to go......

When is the best time to go?

Rather, when is the time to go?

And, how do you go?

Difficult questions to answer. Isn't it?

It's said the first impression is the last impression.

But I also believe that last impression can also be the 'last' impression.

There could be situations when no one remembers how you entered, or when you entered; but everyone will remember how and when you exited.

Not yet getting my point?

I am talking about drama.

I am talking about politics.

I am talking about sports.

I am talking about life.

There could be occasions when we might not be in control of how and when we enter the stage, (for example we do not control the time and manner of our birth in this world), but almost on all occasions, we can sure try to control how and when we exit the stage (for example through our deeds, actions, and words).

When we are in action, whichever arena one may consider, it is very difficult to assess ourself without any bias continuously/regularly and decide that we have had enough and it's time to move on.

Individuals before us have faced this dilemma, and individuals after us will face this dilemma.

There's a saying which I find very apt to describe some of the above mentioned situations:

You should leave, not when people start saying that it's time for you to leave now; but rather when people ask: why leave now?

One possible reason why it becomes difficult for those in action to retire/move behind the stage/exit is that they conjure an image/world of their own, where they think that they are indispensable for the state/sport/stage and that they can still match their heydays.

Along with this world of their own, there could also be lust of power/fame, and the fear of moving out of stage/fear of oblivion that could explain why it becomes difficult to exit.

I guess I have written enough to make your grey cells ponder on the issue.

It's time for me to go !

PS: The difficulty mentioned in my blog is not only limited to the persons named in the blog. Their names were used just to illustrate the point. 

Race,Not with others...But with Yourself!!!!

When we grow older, we learn that it is important to respect ourselves, and try not to mimic others.

When we are young, our parents, in almost all families, ask us to look at others like a neighbor’s son, a cousin, or an acquaintance and behave and become like them. We grow up thinking we need to become like others. And the whole life we spend doing that. We learn that our self, and we teach the same to our children. But don’t you think doing that, clearly disrespects God’s creation?

Everyone in this world is made unique, not for the purpose of becoming like others and imitating them. We are made unique, because we all have the potential to become the one that we all seek to become. But what we are taught when we are young, makes us crib for it our whole life, and waste life, in becoming like "them".

We don't need to become like others. Cultures which had set traditions, they had done so to maintain peace (peace brings happiness ) in the communities. But today, we have become smart enough to understand where our boundaries lie(because we have enough means to understand the lives and limitations of others). Our boundary lies only in one fact that we cannot make others as well ourselves  unhappy. Rest all which happens in this world, all the rules that are set, are only set to make this motive accomplish. World peace, territory boundaries, terrorism, everyone who deals with these heavy topics have the same motto, to make people happy. But we don't generally do so. Gradually everything becomes complicated, because everyone deviates from their line of action(reason being that human mind wants to compete).

Life is easy, if just for once, you could keep the jealousy and the race to become like others aside. 

I am saying this because I have felt it personally. 

I often say I am quite saintly, often I think in a way which does not relate to world affairs, yet I am living in this world. Being saintly and having different line of thought, I am also often discarded from the world. When I was small, my mother once asked me to imagine what would happen if my fellow classmate and a friend of mine will score much more than I will do. She thought that imagining it, the jealousy that I will feel, will help me score more than him. I told my mother that I don't feel anything even if he scores more. My mother was terribly hurt that day, and she thought I would never do anything in my life. She thought that I do not have this competitiveness in me. When at the age of 9-10 I tried to explain to her, that I must compete with myself, and not others, she said I did not had the right to explain things to her cuz I was not as experienced. 

After that day, this incident often realized in front of me. I often fell in situations where I really had to decide and feel the "jealousy", and to my surprise, I have never felt it yet. I donno is it due to my "competitive-lessness", or its due to any other reason which I could call as "wisdom". I concede to the fact that I have never excelled in everything I have done, the reason could very well be the lack of jealousy and competitiveness in my being. Whether you call it my excuse but I say that I have not excelled in those things because I never have liked them in order to break boundaries and work for that particular things. 

But excelling in a thing could also differ depending on different perspectives. I wont go there, cuz, that's absolutely different topic to be talked about.

What I want to convey is, it is true and correct to be competitive, but if you could do that with yourself, life will become much more easy. Everyone will be at peace in their minds. These anger, stresses and feelings of loathes will expurgate from all minds and life will become easy to lead, which is what all of us seek. 

We dont need to worry about how world will run, we only need to run ourselves flawlessly, and if we cant, we could at least try, cuz who knows, after a few generations possibly we could attain "RAM RAJ" the perfect world that we all seek.

I am not here to preach, but this is what I deeply feel. If anyone has the hesitation and starts thinking about the repercussions, I assure u that it is tough in the beginning, but it is where you will find your solace, and life will definitely become easy.
It is my personal experience.

Respect yourself. Be the way you are. Identify what you like and what you want to be like(not like others but the unique one like yourself. It is possible). There's nothing wrong with you or what you do, cuz after you are dead nothing matters, and until you are living you can make things "matter" what you want to make "matter".

Love this Quotation...